The Art of Loving Women
Like Duolingo, but for The Art of Loving Women. Tomo turns the whole topic into a game you play five minutes a day, until it actually sticks.
For the part of you with thirty open tabs that never became anything.
175 levels across 8 sections, about 350 minutes end to end, roughly 70 days at five minutes a day. It moves through Being a Better Ally Today, Seeing the World Through Her Eyes, Great Women You Should Know, Communication and Connection, The History of Appreciation, Challenging the Status Quo, The Science of Social Progress, and Living Your Values. It starts from scratch.
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Key ideas in The Art of Loving Women
- Waiting for a speaker to finish a complete thought helps you see their unique perspective
- Finishing sentences risks missing the punchline or nuance
- Briefly echoing a word to show agreement is known as collaborative overlapping
- Disruptive interruption redirects the focus to the listener
- Maintaining soft eye contact signals presence
- Nodding and open body posture encourage the speaker to continue
- Why waiting for a full thought improves information quality
- Interruption signals that the speaker's voice is less valuable
- Repeatedly being cut off creates a psychological barrier to future sharing
- Distinguishing between collaborative and disruptive speech patterns
- Identifying physical cues for non-verbal listening
- Long-term effects of interruption on contribution
- Wait time prevents cutting off afterthoughts
- Why waiting improves information quality
- Silence as a processing buffer
- Collaborative vs disruptive patterns
You've tried the other tabs
Thirty open tabs. Four facts you actually kept.
You watched. You nodded. By Sunday it was gone.
One answer, then back to scrolling.
Eight weeks. You meant to finish. You didn't.
Tomo gives The Art of Loving Women the Duolingo treatment: levels, streaks, and quick quizzes that test what you just learned. That game loop is what the tabs above never had, so it's the one you actually finish.
Here's what playing it feels like
A real question from this course. Take your best guess.
You think you know exactly where your friend's story is going, so you finish her sentence. Why is this move risky?
Get it right to open this lesson and 174 more in the app.
Where The Art of Loving Women takes you
Go beyond basic respect to discover a deep, informed appreciation for the contributions, perspectives, and history of women. Master the art of being a true ally and advocate in every area of life.
- 1
Being a Better Ally Today
- Listening without interrupting
- How to spot and stop everyday bias
- Supporting women's ideas in meetings
- The power of active encouragement
- 2
Seeing the World Through Her Eyes
- Understanding the 'Mental Load'
- Safety and public spaces
- The double standards of success
- Navigating healthcare as a woman
- The impact of the glass ceiling
- Celebrating female friendships
- 3
Great Women You Should Know
- Leaders who changed history
- Scientists who were overlooked
- Artists who broke the mold
- 4
Communication and Connection
- Validating emotions without fixing them
- The language of inclusion
- Giving credit where it is due
- Constructive ways to disagree
- Building trust through consistency
- 5
The History of Appreciation
- Where the word 'Philogyny' comes from
- Famous defenders of women through time
- How the movement evolved
- Philogyny vs. Chivalry
- 6
Challenging the Status Quo
- Recognizing 'Benevolent Sexism'
- Breaking down the 'Boys Club'
- Raising the next generation of allies
- Advocating for policy changes
- The role of men in women's rights
- 7
The Science of Social Progress
- Why diverse teams perform better
- The psychology of empathy
- How gender equality helps everyone
- 8
Living Your Values
- Setting a standard for your peers
- Handling mistakes with grace
- Finding your unique way to contribute
- The lifelong journey of learning
- Celebrating progress while seeking more
8 sections · 35 units · 175 levels. Built to play, not to enroll.
You pick the voice
The Art of Loving Women is taught in the The Bestie style: your friend who just gets it. Want a different feel? In the app you can spin up the same topic in any of Tomo's teaching styles. Same facts, totally different vibe.
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